And why do I feel like I'm invisible? Here's an example!

 I was feeling kind of guilty for how I felt about this person.  I had spent my time working with them and getting them familiar with what we do every day and I was growing weary of the impatience and the I don't want to work with this person or that person.  I was feeling like they were a spoiled brat and then they helped me.  That made me feel like a jerk.

I got over it.  This is something all too familiar.  I got asked a question and I made a suggestion to reach out to the person who put the work out. I thought it was a good way for them to get clarity.  I wasn't sure because there's all these rules and different ways for each area that we deal with so I thought go to the source.  

I was met with silence.  Then I see a message in another chat asking a bigger group the same question.  Nobody had an answer.  She was going to reach out to a higher up but finally figured it out on her own.

No message saying thanks, or I think I'm going to figure it out on my own.  Whatever I said got dismissed.  

That's how I feel. When I talk?  Nobody listens.  

So I don't talk.  Makes life easier.