Got to be the best

This is a deleter post.

I have to get this off my mind.  

I get sick and tired of someone always throwing negative stuff at me and it's in subtle ways.  It's ways that say you're less than me.  You're not good enough.  You have a horrible life.  You'll never do anything.

Yesterday, I flipped the tables. I had a negative news article sent about where I lived.  I replied with what was happening in their state.

I can't ever share with this person positive news because they get mad that they don't get it.  I'm so damn sick and tired of the spoiled behavior.  I am sick of the subtle bullying that I get.  The bullying I used to get was way worse.

A person gets sick and tired of feeling like they're less than nothing.  If I were to say anything?  It would be a world war.  I would be punished in so many ways by keeping me from other people.

I am sick of the control.  I am sick of feeling like I'm always the inferior one.  So childish. 

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