Don't Look Forward to the Day

 I'm not going to answer any questions about my accident.  I knew I threw it out there.  I know fake concern when I see it.  Hello lurker.  I see you.

I'm upset that why is it some people can do what they want to do and there's no punishment or consequences for what they do?  I'm angry about the semi that sped up and took off. I could barely see the license plate and he jumped the damn median.  I thought now I have to go all through this waiting, paperwork, getting my rates raised because someone else wasn't paying attention.  I realized, I don't know how I'm going to get to Enterprise to rent a car because I don't have anyone to follow me out to the body shop.  I know my sister and brother in-law will be here, but what fun for them.  And depending on how long, they'll be gone and I'll probably have to Uber to get my car back after I return the rental.  This sucks.  This really sucks.

It's like the staying late until 5 one night a week because Frick couldn't stay at her desk when she was supposed to and didn't answer the phone.  It ticked off the managing attorney and we all got punished.  

I know that's just how some things are or that's how some people just act but how come they don't take accountability?  I take accountability even when it's not my fault.

And then there's the monster.  Last night I didn't check the meter because it sounded like something was being thrown. I didn't know if he was having a tantrum but I thought I'll wait until morning.  We've been moderating the central air because he used our appliances.  He never gets punished.  We're sitting here sweating and I am wondering if I will see my landlord before the 12th of Never.

Ok, rant over.  Well safe to say I have a valid reason for not doing an MRI when I see my oncologist next month.  I can't take a bicycle on the freeway.  Ugh.  Joking.  I know she'll understand.  Me communicating these things make people see the light like oh, yeah, that's a lot of money.   Yeah.  I got to speak up more.  Some people understand more than I realize.

I hope the good humans have a good day.  I wish the rest would be held accountable but that's just a wish.  Feeling cynical today about accountability.  




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